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美国教授说:你们应该向这个中国留学生道歉

中美网美国留学  www.usaer.net  2015-07-06    编辑: Alice

编者按:那是2014年的春季学期,当时我是他的老师。我每个学期要教导200多名学生,所以记住他们每一个人,对我来说是件挺困难的事情。但段夫却与众不同。

去年5月3日,一位在美国留学的年轻中国学生,在一起严重的车祸中不幸丧生…

他叫段夫,是这起车祸事件中的受害者,是被酒驾的对方撞死的!可由于他驾驶的是一辆法拉利跑车,一些机警的网络媒体竟迅速抓住这一点开始炒作,给这名不幸的年轻人打上了“富二代”、“炫富”等标签,然后坐看一群网络暴民对他展开人身攻击…

后来,一些媒体对此事进行了澄清性报道,段夫的亲朋也站出来为他辩护,说他是个谦虚懂事的人,只是喜欢车;而仅仅因为他开了辆跑车,就给他扣帽子,侮辱攻击他,是无知和愚昧的表现。

然而,这些声音很快又被网上更多的脏话和人身攻击盖了过去,他们偏执的认为,这些声音,不过是富二代的父母花钱买了水军和媒体,在制造孩子无辜的舆论。



如今,1年过去了。当曾经蹂躏段夫父母和亲朋的网络仇富心态,仍在不断寻找下一个受害者时,我们却收到了一封来自美国的来信……

这封信,是段夫当年就读的美国“帕萨迪纳城市学院”的老师Bennet Tchaikovsky写来的。

以下是这封信的全文:

你好,

去年5月,贵报英文版报道了一篇新闻,说的是一位名叫段夫的中国留学生,在驾驶一辆法拉利跑车出行时,被另一位酒后驾车的司机撞上,不幸身亡。

如今他离世已经一年了。我想告诉你们一些关于他的往事,好让人们可以从一个不同的角度去认识段夫。段夫是我在帕萨迪纳城市学院任教时曾经教过的一名学生,却给我留下了非常深刻的印象。我还希望贵报能把我下面这篇小短文,分享给你们的读者——

一年前,一位名叫段夫的中国交换生学生,在美国街头驾驶一辆崭新的法拉利跑车出行时,被一起突如其来的车祸夺取了生命。至今,许多人仍然认为他又是一个步入歧途的中国富二代。但我想与这些人分享一些我与他相处的经历。

那是2014年的春季学期,当时我是他的老师。我每个学期要教导200多名学生,所以记住他们每一个人,对我来说是件挺困难的事情。但段夫却与众不同。

在那个学期的期中考试后,他发现自己的成绩是B,于是他竟专门找到我,询问如何才能提高成绩。之后,他通过不断努力的学习,在第五次的考试中终于取得了A的成绩。可不幸的是,他却在期末考试前几天突然就出事了,再也无法在最终的考试中取得他所希望的成绩…然而,他的勤奋却令我难以忘记。

我曾经用激将法挑战我9岁的儿子,说如果他能在考试中取得好成绩,我就带他去旅行。然而他却失败了。当时,我像很多家长那样,想给孩子第二次机会。但我最终没有那么做,而是给孩子讲了段夫的故事,告诉他人只有勤奋才可以获得成功。

因此,我想谢谢段夫,谢谢你在我的生命中留下了这段深刻的回忆。

英文原文:

Hello.

In May of last year, you reported on a story involving Fu Duan, an international Chinese exchange student driving a Ferrari who was killed by a an intoxicated driver.

Given that it’s been one year since his passing, I’d like to offer you a different perspective. Fu was one of my students when I taught at Pasadena City College and left a lasting impression upon me. I’ve prepared the below for you to consider sharing with your readers.

Thanks,

Bennet Tchaikovsky

It’s been a little more than a year now since Fu Duan, an international exchange student, passed away in an accident involving a brand new Ferrari. Many people felt that Fu was an example of an international exchange student gone wild. I wanted to take a few moments to share my experience.

Fu was one my accounting students in the Spring Semester of 2014 and his passing happened a few days prior to the final exam. With the over 200 students that I teach every semester, getting to know my students can be a challenging endeavor. However, Fu was different.

After looking at his midterm grade online and realizing that he was receiving a ‘B’ in the course during mid-terms, he contacted me and asked me what it would take to get an ‘A ‘in the course. He studied diligently and received a perfect scores on the fifth exam raising his grade to an ‘A’ heading into the final exam. Fu never got the chance to take the final exam, however, the impression that he has left upon me will last forever.

When we challenged my 9 year old son to achieve certain grades on his report card in order to go on a trip and he failed to achieve the goal, like most parents today, I thought that I should somehow give him another chance. After reflecting, I decided not to let him take the trip. Rather, I shared with him the story of Fu Duan and the dedication that is required to succeed.

Thank you Fu, for making such an impression on my life.

Bennet P. Tchaikovsky, CPA, Esq.

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